Wednesday, March 31, 2010

The reason Barney Inada died.

Barney did not have to die.

He complained of chest pain for about 3 hours. It was around 8:00pm Sunday night and Barney was holding his chest. Dale insisted it was a strained muscle but I knew something was wrong.

Barney didn't want to go for a drive which is something he loved to do every evening. He was in foul mood, he wanted to sleep for a lttle bit. All these were signs that something was wrong and I should have called 911.

I can't trust Dale, when Helen died in 2007, she was dead for hours before Dale let me call 911.

If I wasn't such a idiot Barney would still be alive.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Barney Inada

Barney I miss you so much. I keep expecting to see you or hear you sing.

Da...da...da..dada

He's the cutest boy in the world....he's the cutest boy in the world....and I love him so cuz I want you to know his name is Barney...Kazumi ..Inada.....da..da..da.da.......dada

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Tim and Laurie came to Monterey




Tim and Laurie came to Monterey today. Laurie took the pictures and I really like her. We went to Asilomar and Pacific Grove.
Barney Inada died a month ago today......the pain is still unbearable.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Barney Inada was reborn a child

March 14, 1999 Barney Inada suffered a severe stroke. He was in a coma for 8 weeks and when he awoke he was reborn a child.

A sweet, gentle loving child with bone crushing strength in his hands.

I cared for him since 2001, I bathed him, fed him put him to bed and finally watched him die.

The pain of losing him is unbearable.

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

More thoughts on Barney Inada


Barney Inada

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March 05, 2010
We had some wonderful times together. You always had love for my children and family. Many times we laughed and cried together. Your music and friendship will always be memembered. Thank you God for shareing Barney with us.Aloha, mahalo nui
March 05, 2010
Steve, Melanie and Dale my deepest condolences on the loss of your father. I remember him as a giving person who always made sure everyone around him had fun. Though its been a long time I have fond memories of Uncle Barney.
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Leo Akulian,
Fresno, California

March 03, 2010
Thank you for the very nice memories of dad Stanley, Julie, and Sharen. They are great memories. Hope to hear from you all soon.Dale
March 02, 2010
Our sweet loving uncle Barney will truly be missed.....One of my great memories of him was he always made sure every one was always eating and being happy.My brother Stan Jr. & I would always tell him we are full uncle... We are full... He would say No more food No more rice Huh!!! He would say with a big smile you sure EAT.... EAT.... EAT...I can just see him now.......He is serving Fish, Kim Chee & of course Steamed Rice w/ Soyu to all his friends in heaven.EAT....EAT......EAT......Love u,
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Julieann Akulian-McLallin,
Clovis, California

March 02, 2010
I'll miss you, Uncle barney! I was young and and called him (uncle bongy). He was so good to me, I remember watching him in the garage making a sign for a local store, also every time there was a beautiful sunset, mom & dad would tell me uncle barney painted the sky.. (HE WILL BE MISSED, NOT FORGOTTEN)
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Stanley Maeshiro JR,
Makoti, North Dakota

Monday, March 8, 2010